Karma
I learned when I was young that a smart woman does not seek revenge, she is confident that Karma will settle it and if one is lucky, God and the Universe will invite you to witness her working her magic.
This is what I know to be true. Little people seek revenge, insecure folks plot to make things unpleasant for others and and struggle with power and control issues.
Confident people know that Karma will handle it - and they keep it moving.
